Emily's

Have you ever been asked about, "Why are you not married ?, when other people who are the same age as you are married. Some even get married at a young age, then when is your turn? Are you not afraid of your age?" Let me say something, "Marriage is not about age; it's about finding the right person, finding a person who can accept all of you, in and out, not about the good thing about you, but for the bad side too. Marriage is said to be a sacred institute, it is about not only about two people coming together but also about two families coming together.  Age might just be a number, but how much is that important when two people are getting married. Age brings to maturity, and no one can define the right age of maturity or for that matter, the right age to marry.  A person who is just 18 years old, but looks after the entire household along with looking after a sick parent would be more mature than a 40-year-old person, who never had a worry in the world. Maturity co...

"Yaa, Allaah, if you prepare a soul for You to be my partner life's to the marriage bond, then please, Allaah, point his soul to Your way in still great love in his heart for you, the Messenger of Allah, and your religion. Make him a Muslim who carries out his obligations with heart and right intentions, give him always try to live according to your rules, make it easy for him to leave everything that violates your rules, improve his life, make it easy for all his business, bestow his blessings full of Your blessings, bestow blessings at all times, make him the best leader for himself, his family, and his environment. keep his holiness, keep him from evil and cunning of his devils and armies who try to lead him astray. Get rid of laziness in him, give him instructions on what you want him to fight for, clarify his vision, and preserve his heart O Allaah. I Share this du'a for a purpose to encourage other to make some kind of dua for their future spouse in their...

He will carry you when you feel like you can’t walk or move, he will love you more on the days you don’t love yourself, he will smile for the both of you and him when you don’t feel like smiling, when you feel like the world is weighing you down he will support you, when the thoughts get wild he will look into your eyes and show you that everything will be alright, he will hold you every night so you feel protected in his arms, when you cry he won’t let those tears dry, he will kiss them and wipe them away holding you closer and show you that he's there to stay, so what I'm trying to say is that no matter what, he will be there as long as you need him to be there and that he not going anywhere 💕

... And when he asked what it was that he could give to her that she'd never had before, her answer was so simple. 'Consistency!", she said. "If you want to give me something that no man has ever given to me, then don't give me mixed signals nor mixed emotions that leave me wondering. I'm tired of wondering. If you're going to be here with me, then be here. If you ever feel the need to leave, then stay gone. All I need at this point from someone is "consistency."

For if it was her palms, her selfless love would have handed it to you despite your deserving. It is the ground that bears her entire weight. That is where heaven lies, and if you wish to achieve it- carry her weight. Wipe her tears. Give her hope. Kiss her hands. Tell her you love her, in every tongue you speak. Clean for her. Cook for her. Strive for her. Do not simply hold her hand, for that is not where heaven lies. Bare her burdens. You may never come close to the unconditional manner and loved in which she bared yours. But you may earn the key to the garden of eternal bliss locked beneath her feet.

It took me a very long time to discover myself in a way that I can express myself, my thoughts and visions. Is there anyone reading this? Can I really reach you with my words? Do I make a difference? That remains a question. But I like to try. And this is why : Along the way I found out what works and what doesn't work for me. I know my low points, my weakness and I know better than anyone how I work. As I always say, and it is and remains a cliche, treating another as you would like to be treated yourself is the key. Unfortunately, I cannpt control how someone else thinks, how they are treat me and in what situations that has brought me. A lot has happened so that I have lost hope often enough, confidence has been damaged and I have often stood on the brink of collapse. Yet with time and awareness I have found my way back and I have kept my goal in mind. I want to show who I am, not how someone else presents me or treats me. I want to share how I think and how things c...

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they are on your side but deep down inside they're not. Pay attention. Action speak louder than words and words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies. 2. Almost everything we go through we can't control. That means. If it yours, than somewhere down the line it'll return to you and if it's not, then you have to make peace with it and move on. It's as simple as that. And 3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you've rehearsed it. No matter how many times you've played it in your head. It never goes as planned and almost does it sting a little harder than you thought.

Dont leave to make them feel sad or guilty, they won't. Leave because you no longer have a reason to stay.  Sometimes, you have to be strong for yourself. What is meant to be will end up good and hat is not - won't. Love is worth fighting for, but sometimes you can't be the only one fighting. At times, people need to fight for you. If they don't, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing tp give you.

I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope your truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul. What you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you. You have a fire inside of you - I hope you never let convenience, or comfort, or the easiness of standing still put it out. I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that passion inside of you. I hope you find the kind of love that makes you a softer person. The kind of love that makes you want to be a better man or woman, the kind of love that believes in you and supports you, that stands by yourside. I hope you find someone who quickly become your favourite thing- someone who makes the fall less fearful, someone you can't help buy choose every single day. I hope you find s...

If you're the person who always there for others, know that your heart is rare. Know that you give people hope. Know that you make people feel seen; know that you make people feel like they have purpose. However, also remind yourself that you are not invisisible. Yout heart need rest. You need rest. Remind yourself that you do not need to carry the weight of the world on yout shoulders, that you may not be able to save everyone, that you may not be able to heal every hurt. Remind yourself that you deserve to take all of the energy you put out into the world and invest it back into yourself from time to time. That you are worthy of the love you keep giving to everyone else. Remind yourself, that you dont always have to be a fixer. You can be human, you can ask for help. Remind yourself that you can take a break, that you can take a step back to nourish the softness inside of you.

Who is quiet in large groups or around peope I dont know; you only see the real me if we're close. I smile and laugh a lot, especially at the most inappropriate times. I'm a hopeless romantic. I trip over air, up stairs, and over people's feet. I am the hardest person to offend, but it is all too easy to make me feel horrible. I hate telling people about my problems; they dont need to worry about me. I'm the one who listens to other people's problems. I believe people should not be judged before one takes the time to get to know them, yet I am guilty of doing that exact thing. I love to think rather than talk. I'm awkward, clumsy, shy, strange.. But this is me. Take it or leave it.

Loving yourself, self love, that is what everyone recommends whe you are looking for love in your life. And no matter how cliche it sounds, loving yourself is not only a way to accept yourself, but also to set you norms and values. Know what you are worth. Know what you are worth, know how you are put together, what your good and bad qualities are, how you like to see yourself, how you like to hold on, comfort and support yourself. Love yourself before you allow someone else. Learn from your past, from your mistakes and grow. You are your past, you are your present, you are your mistakes and your lessons. You are yourself, you develop, you want to grow and you want to feel worthy, you want people to treat you with dignity. And that's why you love yourself. You love yourself, to be able to give that same love and to be able to expect from someone else. If you love yourself, accept yourself and respect yourself, you know how you should be treated. Then you discover a love...

  It is okay to miss someone, miss someone who is not right for you but at the moment gave you what you needed. Maybeit was the words that touched you where you thought nobody understood you. Maybe it was the touch that you cherished that way, the arm around you, the emptiness that was filled up. Someone you could talk yo, someone who listened. Maybe that person didn't understand you, maybe the void wasn't filled in the right way, maybe the beautiful moments were not enough to make the dark sides forget. But at the moment, what you needed was what filled you void, right or wrong. You loved the person because of his or her beautiful sides, the beautiful memories that you have built. And it's okay to acknowledge that it might have been nothing more than a consolation, a dream,  memory, a relationship in which you did not match, a good hope, with a painful outcome. It is okay when your expectations, your dreams and your hope lead to disappointment, painful, difficu...

Whatever is going on-it's okay. It's okay if you're confused, if you're hurt, if you don't even know who you are and what you're doing. It's okay to be lost and it's okay to be hurt. Because when you look back it's not the moments that you felt lost and unsure that you'll remember. It'll be those moments after-like how you found something that you've made it your life's work. It'll be what those dark moments lead you to-happiness. So don't be afraid. Your moment is be right there, it's so close. You just have to believe in it.

You’re trying. And it’s enough. Every time you laugh, you are echoing your being into this world. You are making history every time you take a step. Please remember, you are fundamental to the connectivity of this world. There’s nothing insignificant about you.

In the most subtle ways, we never truly get over our traumas. And sometimes we become unkind. Even to those who love us most. You see, trauma reminds us of something we have already known since birth...that we were brought into this world alone, and we will leave this world alone.  And maybe, if I remind myself this fact every day..then maybe the pain would be manageable.

There are people we meet in life who miss being important to us by inches, days, or heartbeats. Another place or time or a different emotional frame of mind and we would willingly fall into their arms; gladly take up their challenges or invitation. But as it is, we encounter them when we are discontent or content and they are not. Whatever they are, we are not and vice versa. Two trains going in different directions that pass for a few powerful moments at full speed, blasting noise and wind but then they are gone. Whatever serious chemistry might have been possible if, isn’t.

Some people know me as an introvert, for some, known me as an extrovert, and talk a lots. For some people, I am also known as a stubborn person, but others know me as a gentle like a mother,, hehe Some people judge me as an arrogant's. But while others judge me as someone who could be the most comfortable place to always talked and sharing about anything, leaning their head on my shoulders. In some people I am known as a very ignorant, uncaring person. But some of them also know me as someone who is too caring, even for the slightest thing about them, and they always happy if I always pay attention to every detail of them.. :D there are some who feel unimportant to greet me when we meet. But some others also hug me without doubt if we accidentally met on the street, and some place. Some people have their own interpretations then choose to leave. There are also those who only hear from others about me, but as if they already feel very familiar and know a lot about me. B...

I will love you as we grow older, which has just happened, and has happened again, and happened several days ago, continuously, and then several years before that, and will continue to happen as the spinning hands of every clock and the flipping pages of every calendar mark the passage of time, except for the clocks that people have forgotten to wind and the calendars that people have forgotten to place in a highly visible area. I will love you as we find ourselves farther and farther from one another, where once we were so close that we could slip the curved straw, and the long, slender spoon, between our lips and fingers respectively. I will love you until the chances of us running into one another slip from skim to zero, and until your face is fogged by distant memory, and your memory faced by distant fog, and your fog memorized by a distant face, and your distance distanced by the memorized memory of a foggy fog. I will love you no matter where you go and who you see, no matter ...

I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it - I own everything abput me : my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my thrumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know - but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that w...

Here's the thing about people with good hearts. They give you excuses when you don't explain yourself. They accept apologies you don't give. They see the best in you when you don't need them to. At your worst, they lift you up, even if it means putting their priorities aside. The word "busy" does not exist in their dictionary. They make time, even when you don't. And you wonder why they're the most sensitive people. You wonder why they are willing to give so much of themselves with no expectation in return. You wonder why their existence ia not so essential to your well-being. It's because they don't make you work hard for the attention they give you. They accept the love they think they've earned, and you accept the love you think you're entitled to. Let me tell you something. Fear the day when a good heart gives up on you. Our skies don't become gray out of nowhere. Our sunshine does not allow the darkness to take over for no re...