If you're the person who always there for others, know that your heart is rare. Know that you give people hope. Know that you make people feel seen; know that you make people feel like they have purpose. However, also remind yourself that you are not invisisible. Yout heart need rest. You need rest. Remind yourself that you do not need to carry the weight of the world on yout shoulders, that you may not be able to save everyone, that you may not be able to heal every hurt. Remind yourself that you deserve to take all of the energy you put out into the world and invest it back into yourself from time to time. That you are worthy of the love you keep giving to everyone else. Remind yourself, that you dont always have to be a fixer. You can be human, you can ask for help. Remind yourself that you can take a break, that you can take a step back to nourish the softness inside of you.
Have you ever been asked about, "Why are you not married ?, when other people who are the same age as you are married. Some even get married at a young age, then when is your turn? Are you not afraid of your age?" Let me say something, "Marriage is not about age; it's about finding the right person, finding a person who can accept all of you, in and out, not about the good thing about you, but for the bad side too. Marriage is said to be a sacred institute, it is about not only about two people coming together but also about two families coming together. Age might just be a number, but how much is that important when two people are getting married. Age brings to maturity, and no one can define the right age of maturity or for that matter, the right age to marry. A person who is just 18 years old, but looks after the entire household along with looking after a sick parent would be more mature than a 40-year-old person, who never had a worry in the world. Maturity co...
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