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Some people know me as an introvert, for some, known me as an extrovert, and talk a lots.

For some people, I am also known as a stubborn person, but others know me as a gentle like a mother,, hehe

Some people judge me as an arrogant's. But while others judge me as someone who could be the most comfortable place to always talked and sharing about anything, leaning their head on my shoulders.

In some people I am known as a very ignorant, uncaring person. But some of them also know me as someone who is too caring, even for the slightest thing about them, and they always happy if I always pay attention to every detail of them.. :D

there are some who feel unimportant to greet me when we meet. But some others also hug me without doubt if we accidentally met on the street, and some place.

Some people have their own interpretations then choose to leave. There are also those who only hear from others about me, but as if they already feel very familiar and know a lot about me. But I'm so grateful that even though it's very small circle around me, in my life that always stays, alhough I often feel disappointed with all the shortcomings, still by my side without caring how annoying I am sometime, :)

Yes, we will never be separated from other people's judgments of us. Their judgment's very mixed. From the worst, bad to the best about us.

But whatever they says, they think, we don't have to defend ourselves or show what we really are. Hated and loved; are two things that we will always have in life.

Those who hate will never listen, and those who love can not even care sometimes.

Human judgment is not everything.
Suffice the judgment of Allah that influences our steps🌹

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