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"I hope you find someone who never makes your question your own self-worth.
I hope you find someone who chases your happiness as much as their own.
I hope you find someone who supports you in the things you are passionate aout.
I hope you find someone whom you can laugh with and sit in silence with and share your deepest secrets with.
I hope you find someone who is your lover, your partner, and your friend.
I hope you find someone who treats you as their equal, who learns and grows with you and beside you.
I hope you find someone who appreciates all the tiny details that make up who you are.
I hope you find someone who respects your heart, your family, and your values.
I hope you find someone who reminds you that you deserve the love you give."

-Pillow Thoughts

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