Emily's

It took me a very long time to discover myself in a way that I can express myself, my thoughts and visions. Is there anyone reading this? Can I really reach you with my words? Do I make a difference? That remains a question. But I like to try. And this is why : Along the way I found out what works and what doesn't work for me. I know my low points, my weakness and I know better than anyone how I work. As I always say, and it is and remains a cliche, treating another as you would like to be treated yourself is the key. Unfortunately, I cannpt control how someone else thinks, how they are treat me and in what situations that has brought me. A lot has happened so that I have lost hope often enough, confidence has been damaged and I have often stood on the brink of collapse. Yet with time and awareness I have found my way back and I have kept my goal in mind. I want to show who I am, not how someone else presents me or treats me. I want to share how I think and how things c...

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they are on your side but deep down inside they're not. Pay attention. Action speak louder than words and words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies. 2. Almost everything we go through we can't control. That means. If it yours, than somewhere down the line it'll return to you and if it's not, then you have to make peace with it and move on. It's as simple as that. And 3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you've rehearsed it. No matter how many times you've played it in your head. It never goes as planned and almost does it sting a little harder than you thought.

Dont leave to make them feel sad or guilty, they won't. Leave because you no longer have a reason to stay.  Sometimes, you have to be strong for yourself. What is meant to be will end up good and hat is not - won't. Love is worth fighting for, but sometimes you can't be the only one fighting. At times, people need to fight for you. If they don't, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing tp give you.

I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope your truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul. What you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you. You have a fire inside of you - I hope you never let convenience, or comfort, or the easiness of standing still put it out. I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that passion inside of you. I hope you find the kind of love that makes you a softer person. The kind of love that makes you want to be a better man or woman, the kind of love that believes in you and supports you, that stands by yourside. I hope you find someone who quickly become your favourite thing- someone who makes the fall less fearful, someone you can't help buy choose every single day. I hope you find s...

If you're the person who always there for others, know that your heart is rare. Know that you give people hope. Know that you make people feel seen; know that you make people feel like they have purpose. However, also remind yourself that you are not invisisible. Yout heart need rest. You need rest. Remind yourself that you do not need to carry the weight of the world on yout shoulders, that you may not be able to save everyone, that you may not be able to heal every hurt. Remind yourself that you deserve to take all of the energy you put out into the world and invest it back into yourself from time to time. That you are worthy of the love you keep giving to everyone else. Remind yourself, that you dont always have to be a fixer. You can be human, you can ask for help. Remind yourself that you can take a break, that you can take a step back to nourish the softness inside of you.

Who is quiet in large groups or around peope I dont know; you only see the real me if we're close. I smile and laugh a lot, especially at the most inappropriate times. I'm a hopeless romantic. I trip over air, up stairs, and over people's feet. I am the hardest person to offend, but it is all too easy to make me feel horrible. I hate telling people about my problems; they dont need to worry about me. I'm the one who listens to other people's problems. I believe people should not be judged before one takes the time to get to know them, yet I am guilty of doing that exact thing. I love to think rather than talk. I'm awkward, clumsy, shy, strange.. But this is me. Take it or leave it.

Loving yourself, self love, that is what everyone recommends whe you are looking for love in your life. And no matter how cliche it sounds, loving yourself is not only a way to accept yourself, but also to set you norms and values. Know what you are worth. Know what you are worth, know how you are put together, what your good and bad qualities are, how you like to see yourself, how you like to hold on, comfort and support yourself. Love yourself before you allow someone else. Learn from your past, from your mistakes and grow. You are your past, you are your present, you are your mistakes and your lessons. You are yourself, you develop, you want to grow and you want to feel worthy, you want people to treat you with dignity. And that's why you love yourself. You love yourself, to be able to give that same love and to be able to expect from someone else. If you love yourself, accept yourself and respect yourself, you know how you should be treated. Then you discover a love...

  It is okay to miss someone, miss someone who is not right for you but at the moment gave you what you needed. Maybeit was the words that touched you where you thought nobody understood you. Maybe it was the touch that you cherished that way, the arm around you, the emptiness that was filled up. Someone you could talk yo, someone who listened. Maybe that person didn't understand you, maybe the void wasn't filled in the right way, maybe the beautiful moments were not enough to make the dark sides forget. But at the moment, what you needed was what filled you void, right or wrong. You loved the person because of his or her beautiful sides, the beautiful memories that you have built. And it's okay to acknowledge that it might have been nothing more than a consolation, a dream,  memory, a relationship in which you did not match, a good hope, with a painful outcome. It is okay when your expectations, your dreams and your hope lead to disappointment, painful, difficu...

Whatever is going on-it's okay. It's okay if you're confused, if you're hurt, if you don't even know who you are and what you're doing. It's okay to be lost and it's okay to be hurt. Because when you look back it's not the moments that you felt lost and unsure that you'll remember. It'll be those moments after-like how you found something that you've made it your life's work. It'll be what those dark moments lead you to-happiness. So don't be afraid. Your moment is be right there, it's so close. You just have to believe in it.