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Marriage Is Not About Age

Have you ever been asked about, "Why are you not married ?, when other people who are the same age as you are married. Some even get married at a young age, then when is your turn? Are you not afraid of your age?" Let me say something, "Marriage is not about age; it's about finding the right person, finding a person who can accept all of you, in and out, not about the good thing about you, but for the bad side too. Marriage is said to be a sacred institute, it is about not only about two people coming together but also about two families coming together.  Age might just be a number, but how much is that important when two people are getting married. Age brings to maturity, and no one can define the right age of maturity or for that matter, the right age to marry.  A person who is just 18 years old, but looks after the entire household along with looking after a sick parent would be more mature than a 40-year-old person, who never had a worry in the world. Maturity co
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Du'a for my future husband ...

"Yaa, Allaah, if you prepare a soul for You to be my partner life's to the marriage bond, then please, Allaah, point his soul to Your way in still great love in his heart for you, the Messenger of Allah, and your religion. Make him a Muslim who carries out his obligations with heart and right intentions, give him always try to live according to your rules, make it easy for him to leave everything that violates your rules, improve his life, make it easy for all his business, bestow his blessings full of Your blessings, bestow blessings at all times, make him the best leader for himself, his family, and his environment. keep his holiness, keep him from evil and cunning of his devils and armies who try to lead him astray. Get rid of laziness in him, give him instructions on what you want him to fight for, clarify his vision, and preserve his heart O Allaah. I Share this du'a for a purpose to encourage other to make some kind of dua for their future spouse in their

Dear Future Wife...

He will carry you when you feel like you can’t walk or move, he will love you more on the days you don’t love yourself, he will smile for the both of you and him when you don’t feel like smiling, when you feel like the world is weighing you down he will support you, when the thoughts get wild he will look into your eyes and show you that everything will be alright, he will hold you every night so you feel protected in his arms, when you cry he won’t let those tears dry, he will kiss them and wipe them away holding you closer and show you that he's there to stay, so what I'm trying to say is that no matter what, he will be there as long as you need him to be there and that he not going anywhere 💕
... And when he asked what it was that he could give to her that she'd never had before, her answer was so simple. 'Consistency!", she said. "If you want to give me something that no man has ever given to me, then don't give me mixed signals nor mixed emotions that leave me wondering. I'm tired of wondering. If you're going to be here with me, then be here. If you ever feel the need to leave, then stay gone. All I need at this point from someone is "consistency."

There's a reason Jannah is not in her hands, but under her feet 🍃🌼

For if it was her palms, her selfless love would have handed it to you despite your deserving. It is the ground that bears her entire weight. That is where heaven lies, and if you wish to achieve it- carry her weight. Wipe her tears. Give her hope. Kiss her hands. Tell her you love her, in every tongue you speak. Clean for her. Cook for her. Strive for her. Do not simply hold her hand, for that is not where heaven lies. Bare her burdens. You may never come close to the unconditional manner and loved in which she bared yours. But you may earn the key to the garden of eternal bliss locked beneath her feet.

MY REASON WHY

It took me a very long time to discover myself in a way that I can express myself, my thoughts and visions. Is there anyone reading this? Can I really reach you with my words? Do I make a difference? That remains a question. But I like to try. And this is why : Along the way I found out what works and what doesn't work for me. I know my low points, my weakness and I know better than anyone how I work. As I always say, and it is and remains a cliche, treating another as you would like to be treated yourself is the key. Unfortunately, I cannpt control how someone else thinks, how they are treat me and in what situations that has brought me. A lot has happened so that I have lost hope often enough, confidence has been damaged and I have often stood on the brink of collapse. Yet with time and awareness I have found my way back and I have kept my goal in mind. I want to show who I am, not how someone else presents me or treats me. I want to share how I think and how things c

Throughout the years I have learned three major things !

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they are on your side but deep down inside they're not. Pay attention. Action speak louder than words and words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies. 2. Almost everything we go through we can't control. That means. If it yours, than somewhere down the line it'll return to you and if it's not, then you have to make peace with it and move on. It's as simple as that. And 3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you've rehearsed it. No matter how many times you've played it in your head. It never goes as planned and almost does it sting a little harder than you thought.